Social Media & Divorce

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Social media has become an integral part of our daily lives, offering platforms which promise connection, communication, and expression. However, as the influence of these platforms grows, so has their role in legal matters, especially in divorce cases.

In northeast Ohio and across the nation, the use of social media during a divorce can significantly impact the outcome of the proceedings.

How Social Media Can Affect Your Divorce

During a divorce, every action and communication may be scrutinized, and social media activity is no exception. Here are a few ways social media can influence your divorce case:

  1. Evidence of Behavior: Social media posts, photos, and comments can serve as evidence in divorce proceedings. For instance, if a spouse claims they are financially struggling but posts pictures of luxury vacations or expensive purchases, these posts could be used to challenge their claims. Similarly, posts that indicate substance abuse, infidelity, or irresponsible behavior can be presented as evidence to support claims relative to custody, parenting time, and even grounds for divorce.
  1. Impact on Child Custody: Child custody can be one of the most contentious issues in divorce cases. Absent an agreement of the parties, the Court is tasked with assessing the allocation of parental rights and responsibilities that is in the best interest of the child, and social media activity can influence custody decisions. For example, posts that show a parent engaging in risky or inappropriate behavior, whether or not they have the child in their possession at that time, could be used to fuel an argument of another parent that they are unfit to maintain custody. Conversely, positive posts that demonstrate responsible parenting can support a parent's case.
  1. Financial Disclosure: Another primary issue to resolve in a divorce is the allocation of assets and liabilities, as well as spousal support. To resolve these matters, a full and complete financial disclosure is required. Social media can reveal discrepancies between a spouse's reported finances and their lifestyle. Posts showing lavish spending or hidden assets can be used to challenge a spouse's financial statements, potentially leading to a more favorable financial settlement or award to the other party.
  1. Emotional Impact and Stress: Beyond the legal implications, social media can also have an emotional impact during a divorce. Seeing a spouse’s posts or interactions can increase feelings of anger, jealousy, or sadness, potentially complicating the divorce process. It’s important to manage your emotions and consider limiting your social media use during this time to avoid unnecessary stress.
  1. Legal Advice and Privacy: Sharing details of your divorce on social media is generally not advisable. Even seemingly harmless posts can be misinterpreted, create confusion, and even sometimes can be used against you in court. It's also important to note that once something is posted online, it can be difficult to remove it completely, and it may be accessible to others for years to come.

Best Practices for Social Media Use During Divorce

To protect yourself during a divorce, it’s crucial to be mindful of both your and your close circle’s social media activity. Here are some best practices:

  1. Limit Your Social Media Activity: Consider taking a break from social media or limiting your posts to avoid potential pitfalls. If you do post, avoid discussing your divorce or anything related to your spouse, finances, or children.
  1. Review Privacy Settings: Ensure that your social media accounts are private and that only trusted friends and family can see your posts. This is not a license to disregard the other practices and post as you please. Be mindful that even with privacy settings, there’s always a risk that your content could be shared or accessed by others.
  1. Avoid Interactions with Your Spouse: Refrain from commenting on or interacting with your spouse's posts during the divorce process. Engaging in online arguments or negative interactions will not help your divorce case.
  1. Consult Your Attorney: Before posting anything that could relate to your divorce, consult with your attorney. They can advise you on what is safe to share and what to avoid.

Consult with Our Cleveland Attorneys for Expert Guidance on Social Media Use

Social media can be a double-edged sword during a divorce. While it offers a way to stay connected and informed, it can also be a source of evidence that may complicate your case. By being cautious with your social media use and consulting with an experienced attorney, you can protect your interests and ensure a smoother divorce process.

Reach out to Laubacher & Co. today at (440) 336-8687 to learn more.

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